Sign up for the Divorced Girl Smiling newsletter to receive weekly articles that might help you during and after your divorce! I can still remember how I felt several years ago when I was dating a guy who was hot and cold. On our first date, he took me to a really nice restaurant where the ambience was romantic, the wine was expensive and the sparks were flying between us. He acted attentive and kind and affectionate, and he made me feel like I was the only woman who mattered. At the end of the night, we kissed goodnight in my kitchen, and I felt like I was floating on a cloud.
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Is there anything more unsettling and frustrating? Something suddenly shifts. Or he shuts down. Or he withdraws. You have no idea where he stands. Is he into you or not? You may try to talk to him about it, but that effectively gets you nowhere.
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He lays it on thick and absolutely ravishes you with attention and warmth — only to switch things up seemingly without any sort of provocation and freeze you out. What happened? Why did he pull away? Was it something you did?
I have given my fair share of mixed signals to men over the years, for various reasons. I hope to help others learn from my mistakes. Jennifer Bedoya, CC0, via Unsplash. Guys, you know the feeling; one minute she is totally into you, and the next she is ignoring you. Why do women do that?