How to Navigate Dating and Sex in Sobriety
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Often times, early sobriety is full of change and difficulties. In these relationships, both partners are extremely dependent on one another for constant validation and attention. Insecurities and jealousy tend to run high, filling life up with unnecessary drama, thus not allowing either person to actually get anywhere in their recovery, or move forward in their life. One of top reasons people tend to relapse in sobriety is due to not getting help with their dysfunctional relationship s. Sober advisers say not to get into a relationship for at least the first YEAR of your sobriety, but is torture of the single life really so necessary that it be an entire year long?! In co-ed meetings, the opposite sex may share some attractive qualities, drawing the newly recovering man or woman to them by speaking about similar values, top line behaviors, goals and other enjoyable changes occurring in their life. This is where it becomes confusing.
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One thing about my life as an active addict is that I lowered my standards to the same sorry level as my behavior. That was certainly true of dating. All I really needed was someone who liked to drink like me or, at the very least, someone who let me drink like I wanted to without giving me any grief about it. My self-esteem would drop a little lower with each blackout and yet I always found the antidote in another bottle of wine that started the vicious cycle all over again.