I remember having no problem the first time I asked a guy out. But it was a simple matter because I knew he was gay. But what it I didn't? You want to ask a guy out but you do not know if he is gay. How should you do it?
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You can control your own actions, you can control your own thoughts. Therefore, you can choose who and what you are attracted to. You are not some helpless victim of urges beyond your control, you're a human being, with free will and a mind of your own. Stop hiding behind the "Was born this way," and "I can't help it" arguments. These are just excuses, because you're afraid to take responsibility. There's nothing wrong with being gay, but you should be able to admit that you can choose. Nobody really wants to face consequences, wether their actions are good, bad, or indifferent, but self control and honesty are important to being a genuine person.
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Last Updated: March 15, References Approved. This article was co-authored by Eric A. Samuels, PsyD.
There is a problem with being-gay-and-dating when most of my friends are straight. The supposed point of connection would be laughable, if it weren't so often assumed: Their OGF is gay; I am gay. Proving what, exactly, I don't know.