While everybody's parents made mistakes, went through tough times, or didn't always know the exact right thing to do, some people were raised by truly toxic parents, and it can show. If your partner's mom is toxic , the effect she had on them may still be sticking around — even years later. And it may even be dragging down your relationship. That's why it can be helpful to recognize these signs, not only to better understand why your partner acts the way they do , but also so you can be a better partner yourself, and help them through it. Which, of course, is totally possible to do.
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Codependent relationships: Symptoms, warning signs, and behavior
One of the reasons why I spend a lot of time talking about codependent relationships is because I used to be a hardcore codependent. I put women I wanted on the pedestal constantly and was afraid of rocking the boat. Not good! The other day I received a question from a reader asking me if two codependents can have a successful relationship.
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There is much more to this term than everyday clinginess. Codependent relationships are far more extreme than this. A person who is codependent will plan their entire life around pleasing the other person, or the enabler. In its simplest terms, a codependent relationship is when one partner needs the other partner, who in turn, needs to be needed. It is important to know the difference between depending on another person — which can be a positive and desirable trait — and codependency, which is harmful.
The more time that you spend learning about BPD Borderline Personality Disorder and other behavioral relationships, the more you will realize that most people in these relationships suffer from some sort of Codependency issues. People with BPD are usually very codependent individuals. They seek the same love and affection that codependents seek. Over the years, I have gotten much better at figuring out the causes of codependency and more importantly, how to smash these problems so you can live a happier, healthier life.